Immaculata High School’s 50th Year Reunion – Reflection by Janet Hoey Robinson

 Lord God, bless the women who graduated together from Immaculata 50 years ago.

They were wonderful then and have grown to be more wonderful since then.

How lucky we are to have had this weekend to spend with one another to reminisce.

So much has happened in 50 years and yet, so much has stayed the same.

How fun it was to share this time with one another and get a fresh perspective on our history.

Fifty years is a long time, long enough to find and lose partners, beget and launch children.

Fifty years ago is long enough to have made great strides as well as many mistakes.

Fifty years is a short time ago in that we are all still the person we were in yesteryear.

Fifty years ago is a good time and now is the time to give thanks for our memories.

Fifty years ago we were naive adolescents and yet strong women.  Now we are wise souls.

We are very grateful to Sue and her team for their efforts to unite us; it took a lot of work.

We are grateful to each person who came to share their story and listen to others.

We are grateful for technology and how it helped us make and renew many more connections.

There was an excitement and anticipation about what might have been spoken and shared.

We were glad to meet old friends and perhaps even made some new ones on this occasion.

Conversations were mostly light and positive – like Christmas cards/letters sent and received.

People looked much the same (almost) and we were all grateful for the health we had.

Yet, we wonder what was behind our smiles and light conversation and what wounds do we own?

Some were comfortable sharing a tough part of their story and appreciated trusting as gift.

Alums asked each other questions about who they were and what gave meaning to their lives?

Immaculata was a safe place to learn about who we were and how we fit in the world.

One could wonder how many of us still belong to the church of our high school faith?

One could wonder what church, prayer and community mean to us individually and collectively.

Collectively we were naïve in 1965, but not in 2015.  What has changed us?

What do we hope for in our world now and how are we continuing to make a difference?

Life is good and our reunion was good; we were taught to be authentic and to share our reality.

Some have been hurt by life and that transformed them?  How can we support them?

Where is our joy and how can we share that with one another?  Laughter is so helpful.

We believe in one another and are grateful to be touched by each other again.  Thanks to all.

Life at Immaculata was a treasured gift; it was what we needed to become who we are.

We were loved and valued and learned it was okay to just be oursleves in a variety of ways.

We learned about the power and choices women had long before it was in vogue to live that.

We learned a lot about praying and who God was or wasn’t in our lives.  We learned to laugh a lot.

We learned what it “meant to be religiously grounded, well-educated & socially conscious.*

Lord God, thank-you for all that was, all that is and all that will be in the lives of us all.

I believe God is saying to each of us in the class of 1965 the words from Jeremiah 29.

I know the plans I have in store for you; it is Yahweh that speaks –

plans for peace, not disaster, reserving a future full of hope for you. 

Thanks to one and all, those we saw and those whose faces are just etched in our memories. Amen

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*Quote from Barbara Johns about Immaculata in the Feminist History of the Sister Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, p.322

Immaculata Class of ’65 Reunion Meeting,  September 28, 2015

Present: Kathy Nacy Stasis, Sue Lyons Williams, Beverly Hydo, Judy Morad Gumbel, KathyPetlewski,Mary Ann O’Rourke, Lillian Demski Birrell, Paula Geraci Zito, Sue Evans Shovlin

Reservations: Judy has 57 responses for the Friday night Meet and Greet and 56 alumnae for the luncheon. We also will have three IHMs attending the luncheon and possibly Miss Des Rouche. Judy will send Kathy P a list of those attending to be eblasted.

Facility: Sue Talked to our Dearborn contact, Liz MacNamara,. We will be paying $100 for a TV to display a loop of pictures copied from the yearbook. The inn is providing at no charge: microphone and podium, six round tables for lunch, two oblong tables for reception and memorabilia, and an easel to display greeting from those unable to come.  We will inquire if we will be allowed to pipe in 60’s music. Judy thinks she has a good collection on CD if the inn does not have a 60’s program.

Friday night Appetizers: Janet Hoey Robinson has agreed to handle the details.

Memorabilia table: Cindy Dunlop Chabie has agreed to facilitate the items.

Flickr account: Kathy P reported the bio pages are trickling in. WHAT DID WE DECIDE ABOUT POSSIBLY TAKING PICTURES OFF FLICKER IF WE HAVE A LOT OF REPEATS?

Spreadsheet: We will have copies of the spreadsheet addresses at the reunion for attendees. In order to offer a copy to those who cannot be there Kathy P will send an eblast the week before the reunion asking anyone interested to contact Mary Ann O. For those not attending who do not have internet we will send them a copy via US mail.

Floral arrangements: Sue LW will use six five inch cubes and possibly a seventh vase.

Trivia: Kathy NS has a four page ice breaker trivia test. We will pass it out at the reception table or leave them on the lunch tables. TBD. Kathy will read the answers after lunch.

Nametags: Bev showed us her mock ups. First names are large and easy to read.

Donations: It has been suggested to honor our IH teachers, who exposed us  to such wonderful literature, that we chose a novel,  book of poetry etc. and donate it to a school of our choice. We will mention this at the reunion, but we will also put a reminder on our website.

Program: Sue ES will have program cards printed. The program will include: 1) Group photo. We will do 3 photos of twenty. Mary Ann O and Paula will write down the names for each picture. 2) Welcome-Sue ES 3) Memorial for deceased classmates: Kathy P and Mary Ann O will read names and light 13 candles for each of the 12 classmates and Miss Patricia Wider + one extra just in case. Sue LW will provide the votives. Sue ES will do a poster with pictures of our deceased members.  Judy will bring the lighter. 4) Kathy NS will do the invocation.5) Lunch 6) Kathy P will give pointers on using the social networking sites she has set up.7) KathyNS will read the answers to the trivia test.

WE WILL BE THERE AT 10:00 FOR THE LUNCHEON

OUR NEXT MEETING WILL BE MONDAY OCTOBER 26, 2015  SAME PLACE 6:00.

Suggestion for Book Donation

A suggestion was offered by one of our classmates for your consideration in honor  of our 50th Reunion.

Most of our fond memories include a special teacher or teachers. These special women were so instrumental  in our becoming  unique, capable, loving and accomplished women. They instilled in us a love of the arts, literature and a life of learning.    We would be honoring that special time in our lives  in a unique and lasting way by making a donation of 2 to 3 books to a place special to us in our own community .  We could inscribe each book with the teacher’s name.

This is meant for your personal consideration and will be done on a individual basis.